THE DREAM GUY 2.
As I promised, I give an account of the developments.
First of all, good news, despite the much humiliation, negative energy, anger arriving from the conned ladies, our Cowboy has a SQUEEZE.
I saw their common photos, they are circulating very harmonious energies together.
It is true here that opposites attract each other, since the stately blonde knight has given his heart to a fragile, creole-skinned lady with brown, curly hair.
He has written in capitals in the Skype window which indicates one’s state, "MY PARTNER FOR LIFE IS MARYLIN, I DON’T NEED ANYONE ELSE."
Sadly, after that, he deleted me as well from his partner list, though I have wished the best for him honestly!
Since I cannot be in love with a picture, for me, the quality of the energy coming from someone is important, I usually do not take the initiative but react, and the Cowboy’s behavior towards my person was aloof, so I soon abandoned the idea that he could be my "special someone".
I have fallen in love with somebody else me as well, but that is a different subject.
In any case, that he cut me, too, out of his life, is again a useful lesson for me according to which, when we help someone without him-her asking us for it first, then we should not have expectations with regard to the individual’s behavior.
We should not do someone a favor if we expect her-him to be grateful afterwards!
As it turned out, it was my karmic obligation to clear him, so what I have been doing is rather about me than him.
It is my interests, my becoming better which I must focus on, independently of the other person’s behavior.
This, the conned ladies, the other victims have to acknowledge as well.
We have to look at our cowboy as the model who is advertising the clothes.
The essence is not the model -no matter how showy he is -, but the thing he calls our attention to.
If a piece of clothing suits our model well, and we buy it because we are hoping that we, too, will be as hot in it as the model, but we have to be greatly disappointed when we look in the mirror, it is not the model’s fault!
If someone is daydreaming about a virtual person without ever touchingher-him in reality, she-he should not be surprised if reality is not as he-she has imagined.
This, every victim should realize, that they are as guilty of letting themselves exploited as the scammers.
Waking up from the dream world to reality has indeed a price.
Knowledge has a price.
If the ladies did not know that they were dealing with a fraud, if they got lost in their own fantasy, if they imagined the guy in the picture on their side as a model of clothes, then the time was ripe to wake up.
Usually, one has to pay for dreams as well.
The ladies should reflect on why they yielded to the emotional blackmail.
The law of karma is that we get what we ourselves also have an inclination towards.
Ladies! Isn’t it possible that until now, you have tended to direct, to control your love relationships with emotional blackmail!
The fraud on duty touched and utilized just the point where you are the weakest.
Your anger is justified, but if you are still full of this aggressive energy weeks later as well, then aggression appears in the cellular memory, too, and you will have cancer!
One must draw the lesson and go on.
It is natural that you are disappointed, sad, but if you do not let go of these feelings, then this energy will induce another situation where you will find yourselves in the role of the victim again.
Take responsibility for what happened.
No one threatened You with a weapon, no one forced You to pay.
We all did it voluntarily!
What kind of justice you would like to have in exchange for all this?
The best would be to acknowledge that you are just as responsible for what happened, one must draw the lesson and move on.
How can one verify whether someone is real?
Me, I identified the original man by the fact that his name was on the list of pupils of the schools he specified to me.
When someone has neither relatives, nor acquaintances, he-she does not show pictures about themselves together with others, when she-he does not have childhood friends - then that person is not who he-she purports to be.
If he was indeed that romantic, if he is really as wonderful a man as he describes himself, where are his friends, his childhood memories, why doeshe not know the sights of the town, why doeshe not know the national dish of the ethnic group he says he belongs to.
Why is it impossible to find his home address or workplace on the Google map? If he is an architect, why doeshe not know the international units of measurements, if a doctor, a vet, why can he not give me advice when I ask him about the symptoms of my dog, or about my own disease?
I could go on enumerating the questions to which if there is no immediate answer, something is not right with the individual’s personality, with the profession he-she specified.
Everyday questions, the subject of an average conversation, still very revealing.
The problem is, my ladies, that you wanted to believe that you had found the dream guy so much that you lost your ability to notice the simplest tumbles of logic in the scammers’ communication!
The responsibility for this rests only on You, no one else!
It is time to step out of the victim’s role and apply the energy of anger to something more useful.
We cannot punish the frauds, partly because there must be a lot of them, and partly because neither European, nor American lawsmake it possible to hold the criminals of an African country responsible.
What we can do is prevent their further expansion and that they could have more victims.
What I devised is the following:
What I did wasgo on the "Aliases’ " friend list, I made a note of the list of potential victims and I started notifying them, I sent them the link to my writing and the video.
Of course, my computer ceased to function temporarily many a time.
I received letters from several ladies from all over the world.
A Lithuanian lady wrote that they plucked her of all her fortune and she had to be hospitalized because she got a nervous breakdown.
I received letters from Brazil, India, Sweden, Arabic territories, America.
A great number of conned ladies asked me to help them.
Subsequently we cannot do anything anymore, unfortunately, trouble can only be prevented.
The earning-machine has started up again, and at the end of this piece, one can find the recent scammer names.
We are working on the creation of an international group who will be willing to participate in the revelation of the scammers.
One of the brave ladies got to the point of travelling to Nigeria to meet her own “Alias”.
The lady is an American private investigator who is also teaching at a university.
She registered to several sites with her own name and face.
3 minutes after her registration, someone had already “taken the fly”.
Mary Leal - this is her name -, was in contact with an “Alias” who was calling himself George.
Mary travelled to Lagos to meet her virtual "lover".
George arrived to the date.
He entered into the spirit of love to such a degree that he was convinced that the woman, too, is in love with him so much so as not to notice that he is black and does not resemble the picture on the site at all.
What is more, the man had untreated polio, so he arrived to the meeting sliding on his elbows.
He showed Mary the café from which they were chatting.
The café was a public place with at least 20 computers.
Behind the PCs, children and women were sitting as well.
In front of each, one of the dating or social networking sites was open.
There was a superior who was checking the communication.
So I was right back then.
I told my friends how strange it was how much my "Alias’s" personality could change.
At times he was a bit weak in the head, at times, very educated, and sometimes I had the feeling that his reactions were very feminine.
It was the women probably who wanted to talk with me about food all the time.
It also struck me that the personality of the individual with who I talked on the phone now and then was totally different from the one - more precisely, those - with who I was corresponding with.
Now I understand why.
The whole is an enormous impostor-network.
Poor ladies who are wishing for love! Millions of potential victims!
Nigeria has 170 million inhabitants, whose 10 per cent is making their living by scams!
Lonely ladies of the world, take care!
It would be good if we, adventurous ladies, joined forces, and somehow stopped them.
We have to be many to have the media pay attention to us!
We need all the help!
I ask everybody who could really help us create a group to get in touch with me, please!
In addition to the list of the scammers, I also attach a letter I got from yet another endeavorer, with another picture of course.
The stylistic characteristics are recognizable.
If someone has read such a letter, she-he will recognize the others as well, since the "Aliases" got their training likely from the same person.
My writing is probably only another step, the story will have a continuation.
I promise that I am going to give an account of everything on this site!
Here is a typical letter on which ladies get caught instantly...
How are you today?I guess you are doing fine as always.
I am from Dublin Ireland.I am an Engineer by profession.I had my decree at the stanforduniversity. I work with Westward Freight shipping company Ltd here in the U.K.I have been with the company for years as the director of operations
I am the only child of my late parents of the blessed memory. I was married before, but lost my wife in a car wreck five years ago. May her soul rest in peace.I want to spend the rest of my life with someone who is friendly, honest, caring, trustworthy and God fearing. I find very much peace and tranquility here.
I`m, mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, a good listener, God Fearing, and a positive person. I am real easy person to talk to and a loving and outgoing man. I enjoy playing sax which i do often at my leisure time. I like going to the movies, or watching movies in my room or Cabin, I like swimming, listening to music and dance to any kind of music, sing, sailing, going bowling and also a good cook. I am a family oriented person, love children and there is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself.
It is very important for me to build a life of stability, security, and opportunity for the special person I hope to share my thoughts, feelings, experiences, dreams and fantasies with, and to offer the best opportunities for any kid that might be included in my life, both mine and that special person children, and that is my focus at this time and I also do enjoy my job though risky because we are always on the high sea.
I am really interested in wanting to know about what makes you the special person you are today, I want to know more about your family, your background, your life experiences, past relationships, your goals and dreams, your interests, and anything else you want to tell me. I even want to learn about the secrets you very rarely share with someone!. So come on and share it all with me, as I am not here to talk to you about general things such as partying, the weather, sports, e.t.c. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the friendship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. This friendship I want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality, love, faithfulness and potential. Hope i didn't write much of a novel...........lol.
Hope to hear from you soon. Until then have a pleasant day.
Hug and sweet kisses
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Link to the video where Mary Leal speaks (about mid-page, from the two videos the one on the right)
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